Dating, Engagement, Marriage: The Stages of Home-Buying

What’s Next?

  • The Home Search is the same as “Dating”. We know what we want in a home/partner and we know we must “have the goods” to get what we want.
  •  “The Engagement” happens after we make an offer on a home and the offer is accepted. Tread carefully during this period of time. This is when you look for flaws and deal-breakers so you’ll have time to bail out without penalty.
  • “The Marriage”: You’ve closed the purchase and are the official owner of the property. (Here’s where I start snickering.) If you try to get rid of it now, everyone will be wondering “What’s wrong with it?”

Many of us know what happens after marriage.

Weight-gain, lax grooming, fading colors, neglect. After buying a home, the same stages of post-courtship decline can happen before we know it.
We trim less and become visibly unruly. The leaves fade and are missing the luster and color applied before. The landscaping fits a bit tighter as the fabric of neglected greenery expands. We become fat and lazy!

You start coming home later…

You know how it goes within a marriage. You think what’s-her-name isn’t going anywhere so you become sloppy. You leave the toilet seat up. You buy Lucky Charms instead of bran cereal. You fail to be her hero by killing spiders. You fail to allow her to pluck your eyebrows when you start looking like Fu Manchu. You wait until he gets back into the room and point out that the dog barfed so he’s stuck cleaning it up.
(NOTE: I’m guilty of the last sentence above as of just this morning.)

The lights are on but no one is home…

This is why it’s important to generate reasons to spruce up. If you’re concerned about whether or not people think you’re a slob, invite them over for a party! This will give you incentive to shed a few lbs. of that fluffiness, plant tulips, etc. Make everyone want to be on the arm of the best-looking, best-maintained house on the block, even after being “married to it” for many years!

Finally, know if you’re ready for a commitment in the first place!

This photo was taken when I visited my family in Iowa last year.

 
What’s the difference between eggs and bacon?
The chicken is involved; the pig is committed.

Meet Ana and her daughter Jessica, our Exclusive Buyer Clients!

UPDATE as of 11:01 a.m. on September 24th, 2015: Ana and Jessica’s FHA purchase contract has been accepted! Terms include Seller providing clearance of all Section 1 items.
Ana and her daughter Jessica have been carefully planning and preparing for home ownership since last year. Just last week, Ana and Jessica signed on to become Realty World Neighbors’ Exclusive Buyer Clients.
Today we submitted a complete purchase contract on their behalf. We did this in person and met with the sellers’ agent in her Oakland hills office just this morning. By tomorrow afternoon, we’ll know if they were the winning buyers or if we will have to prepare to make an offer on their Number 2 choice.
Stay tuned for updates!
mother and daughter photo

Meet Mary & Hayes, our Exclusive Buyer Clients!

We absolutely love working with smart Clients! We are pleased to announce that our Exclusive Buyer Clients Mary & Hayes are in contract to buy a home in the City of Hayward!  We are going through the due diligence part of the purchase contract now and are on the way to Mary & Hayes owning a home in the coveted Upper B Street neighborhood if all goes well with their inspections.
Stay tuned for updates!Hayes and Mary with Sylvan photo

4th Annual SantaCon Hayward 2015!

2014 SantaCon group photo croppedPlanning for SantaCon Hayward scheduled for Saturday December 5th, 2015 is well underway! So far the following sponsors have committed to participating with their generous donations to the Hayward Animal Shelter:
The World Famous Turf Club
The Bistro
Chalk It Up
Brews & Brats
Bijou Restaurant & Bar
Sponsorship opportunities are available NOW so don’t delay! Visit www.SantaConHayward.com for more information.